Sometimes it’s the journey that teaches you a lot about your destination. I learnt that yesterday, as I presented my vision of Inua Dada to a group of women at the Karen Country Club who so kindly invited me to do so. But I learnt so much more about myself in the process…
I was a little nervous going into this presentation because I’ve been feeling a little lost. About a lot of things; my work, my projects…there’s been a sense of fatigue and confusion around it all and I wasn’t feeling presentation-ready. But I’d already committed and so I said I’d go ahead.
A few days before this presentation I took a moment to reflect. I realized that I wanted to start over, to re-align myself so that I cam move forward with my projects with clarity. I realized I’m tired, jaded and discouraged, feeling like I’ve been taking on too much at the same time. To top it all of, I’m raising a new family and running a home. I’m burnt out. But I’m glad I know, so that I can fix it. And fixing it for me begins with going back to my passion projects, where my fire burns most. That and taking a break with Baby Huru and Baba Huru, which is in the works ☺️
So I’m at a point where I’m going back to the beginning, resetting my life and starting over. Pushing reset. That goes for my projects as well.
I’ve realized that sometimes it’s ok to go back to basics. It’s ok to feel frustrated and jaded as long as you can get to the root cause and begin working it out. It’s ok not to be ok…sometimes. As long as you’re willing to fix it.
People around you may not understand it but that’s fine, because you need to be healthy for you before you can be healthy for others.
Presentation day was a success! I got some support and met people interested in walking this journey with me. I’m ready to approach things with a new, fresh mindset and see where it goes from there! I only realized this as I stood in front of these women, with renewed passion and conviction, almost as though I was hearing myself speak for the first time.
Photography: @mosmwaniki (Instagram)
Read about The Inua Dada Foundation here: www.inuadadafoundation.org, and learn more about our new project, Adopt a Dada, which we will be rolling out early next year.
47 comments
Silva Tutu
December 15, 2016 at 11:01 am
“… It’s ok not to be ok…sometimes. As long as you’re willing to fix it…”
This is deep!
Janet Mbugua
December 15, 2016 at 11:45 am
Thanks as always for your support Silvester ??❤️
Saadia
December 15, 2016 at 11:01 am
You are truly an inspiration.my wce .keep on updating us I personally love your blog and can’t stop reading and getting inspired.
Am forever grateful for the motivation ….cheers beautiful.
Janet Mbugua
December 15, 2016 at 11:49 am
Bless you Saadia, words like yours keep me going too! Thanks for following my journey through my blog. ❤️❤️??
Edith
December 15, 2016 at 11:31 am
Beautiful and encouraging piece of writing Janet. Keep shining!
Janet Mbugua
December 15, 2016 at 11:44 am
Oh thank you Edith! Keep shining too ❤️
Verarita Wananyanga
December 15, 2016 at 11:56 am
“People around you may not understand it but that’s fine, because you need to be healthy for you before you can be healthy for others.”
Just what I needed to hear, today.
Thanks Janet.
Janet Mbugua
December 15, 2016 at 12:15 pm
So happy that you’ve found encouragement in these words. I’ve learnt to do me, at my own pace. I’ve learnt that people will misunderstand that and make it about them but I’ve made peace with it. Thanks for resonating!
beingrosemary
December 15, 2016 at 11:57 am
‘Sometimes it’s the journey that teaches you a lot about your destination’
couldnt agree more..such an encouraging post!Thank you!
http://www.beingrosemary.com
Janet Mbugua
December 15, 2016 at 12:13 pm
Thank you and I’m glad you find it encouraging! Many thanks for reading and commenting ❤️?
Sophia Wanjiku
December 15, 2016 at 12:24 pm
This spoke directly to me ” I’ve realized that sometimes it ok to go back to basics. It’s ok to feel frustrated and jaded as long as you can get to the root cause and begin working it out. It’s ok not to be ok…sometimes. As long as you’re willing to fix it.
People around you may not understand it but that’s ok, because you need to be healthy for you before you can be healthy for others”
Janet Mbugua
December 15, 2016 at 1:31 pm
Thank you Sophia and I’m so happy the post spoke to you ❤️
Judy Ngunju
December 15, 2016 at 1:22 pm
Be encouraged and know the ultimate of all is that in the end everything works out for the best. Its great to admit when you feel overwhelmed because then the people you love understand you and are able to help. Cheering you on Janet!!
Janet Mbugua
December 15, 2016 at 1:30 pm
Thaaanks Judy! Well said ??
Nyambs Chehe
December 15, 2016 at 2:42 pm
Janet,there is light at the end of the tunnel just keep going and fix what needs fixing.
Janet Mbugua
December 15, 2016 at 3:24 pm
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Debbie
December 15, 2016 at 2:52 pm
Your post is encouraging.it’s never easy to move on with renewed energy after feeling all beat.Thanks .
Janet Mbugua
December 15, 2016 at 3:23 pm
Thanks for the feedback Debbie! No it’s not easy but once you make the decision to fix something, that’s the first step. Thanks for appreciating my thoughts!
Mekdes
December 15, 2016 at 2:56 pm
You go girl! You are an inspirational woman. The sky is the limit I love everything you do. Many more blessings coming ❤️
Janet Mbugua
December 15, 2016 at 3:23 pm
Much love mama ??
Brenda Maturu
December 15, 2016 at 3:01 pm
Very encouraging ,ready to volunteer in inua dada
Janet Mbugua
December 15, 2016 at 3:22 pm
Thank you dear! Keep looking out details ☺️
Carol Kigome
December 15, 2016 at 3:02 pm
Oooh Janet. Out of my crazy day I stumbled on Kungara recommending a look at your blog. Great piece you got words out of my mouth especially young family part. Good to know it is normal to burn out. Happy holidays !
Janet Mbugua
December 15, 2016 at 3:21 pm
Hey dear! It’s sooo normal, I’ve noticed that. Especially for you and I being first time working mums! It’s deeply fulfilling but it’s tiring and I think it’s ok for us to admit that and keep going! Thanks for reading my post mama ❤️
Fatima
December 15, 2016 at 3:55 pm
Motivating and inspiring words from the person I look up to u r my role model
Janet Mbugua
December 15, 2016 at 5:24 pm
Bless you Fatima, Asante ??❤️
Trizah Mbugua
December 15, 2016 at 4:53 pm
you are the best Janet May God bless you and yours abundantly…you are an encouragement especially to first time mums like me.
Janet Mbugua
December 15, 2016 at 5:23 pm
Thank you so much Triza and congratulations on becoming a mummy! Great feeling, isn’t it? How old is your little one? Thanks for reading and commenting on my post ❤️❤️
Ciru.
December 15, 2016 at 5:18 pm
So much love for you Janet…This is so inspiring!
Keep pushing ma’…greatness is your portion..love and light!
Also,I’d love to volunteer! Inua Dada is such a brilliant and noble cause!❤
Janet Mbugua
December 15, 2016 at 5:23 pm
‘Greatness is your portion’…I love that! Thank you dear and keep a look out for our updates on Inua Dada’s activities to see how you can be involved ☺️
Aby Mamboleo-Mwangi
December 16, 2016 at 8:40 am
Resetting is a MUST. Take time to breathe we all need it. Glad you are sharing your journey. Hugs & Kisses to the familia. Much love from your big sis here in California.
Janet Mbugua
December 19, 2016 at 4:03 am
Thank you Aby! It was so lovely meeting you! And yes, my reset mode is still very much on! Hugs and kisses to your lovely family too ❤️❤️❤️
Ruth Nderitu
December 16, 2016 at 11:09 am
I’m so much inspired by this Janet.Always,my number one super woman. Cheers!
Janet Mbugua
December 19, 2016 at 4:01 am
Thanks a lot dear!
Emelda
December 16, 2016 at 1:34 pm
I am encouraged that you can start over at any point in your life.. that it’s okay to not be ok.. wow, i look forward to your posts, they renew and give strength to push forward. Go Janet, you motivate many of us.
Janet Mbugua
December 19, 2016 at 4:02 am
Oh thank you Emelda, people like you motivate me too! ❤️
Miriam
December 20, 2016 at 8:42 am
This is my first time reading any of your posts and as I read, I thought, “Wait, Janet is human.” Thanks for sharing about the very human experience of being burnt out and needing to reset.
Janet Mbugua
December 21, 2016 at 8:15 pm
Thanks Miriam! And yes I’m super human ☺️ I appreciate your feedback, keep reading my blog posts! ❤️
Bernice
December 25, 2016 at 6:06 pm
This has just encouraged me to start over!The Lord is faithful to complete the good work He began in each of us!May He renew your strength.
Bernice Mugambi
December 25, 2016 at 7:21 pm
This has just encouraged me to start over in my projects as well.The Lord is faithful to complete the good work He began in each of us!May He renew your strength and may He direct your every step!
Janet Mbugua
December 25, 2016 at 8:37 pm
Amen! Thank you Bernice ☺️☺️❤️ Merry Christmas
Shkwela
December 26, 2016 at 8:21 am
I have been frustrated for so long now, with a family to raise and a career to build.I am pushing reset now.Thanks for the encouragement.
Janet Mbugua
December 26, 2016 at 12:52 pm
It takes a while to get there but be intentional about it and find time to breathe easy. Bless you ❤️
Shkwela
December 26, 2016 at 8:22 am
Also, please post more.We need them.Thanks.
Janet Mbugua
December 26, 2016 at 12:52 pm
Done! ?? Bless you ❤️
Terry
December 26, 2016 at 3:09 pm
wow…yeah Janet, sometimes its ok to feel a little lost so you may discover new things as you try to find yourself…officially “Janetted”…love you…
Janet Mbugua
December 26, 2016 at 4:48 pm
Haha! Officially Janetted! Good one! Thanks dear ?